
After talking to one of my fellow BBW friends :-) I was inspired to write about this topic. Because I've experienced this personally I felt like I should be able to share my two cents to the conversation. My friends name is Mya. She's in long term relationship with a woman whom is extremely attractive. The problem is Mya isn't what most of the shallow women of the world would consider attractive. These same women constantly ask her partner "WHY HER?" Because they feel she can do much better then MYA based on her physical appearance. NOW, I too have been judged in this manor..yea there are people out there that have called me BLACK & UGLY and has suggested my girl date someone equally attractive. (fuck you) She chose me for a reason. One you may never understand because you are not her and you're blinded by your shallowness. Anyway. Mya put up with the BS but when she started feeling like her girl agreed with what they suggested she became a bit insecure.
Why would you say that you love someone because of who they are, on top of that suggest that you are attracted to Big women just to make her feel better? You've got to know that -when she catches you hounding women with much less curves, and slick talking about how SEXY they are, that is going to hurt her. I don't care what any of you Big girls out there say..If your partner left you for a smaller chick you would feel some kind of way about the. Like I don't understand the way some peoples brains function. You are giving this woman an even bigger complex. The one time she believes she is beautiful and wanted and loved by someone you make her feel otherwise. If we're watching TV or just out and about and the butt of your jokes and giggles are about a BBW how do you expect her to feel? ASS. You talk about how FAT she is and how she needs to lose weight and you're girl is lookin like 'WHAT THE FUCK U TRYNA SAY ABOUT ME'. That's like your white boyfriend talkin shit about every black person in eyesight. HOW WOULD U FEEL? You can have your opinions but when these negative comments are directed toward someone who is in your personal category how can you NOT get offended?
You shouldve told me - Kelly Pricexoxo,
Beaute